Thursday, March 13, 2008

I Never Thought I'd Say This...

...but I'm actually mildly concerned about TF. He hasn't been heard from since Saturday.

Now, granted... if WE don't contact him, I get all kinds of nasty messages, escalating in nastiness. By this point (5 days) I'd be getting messages every few hours: "WHERE'S my sun!" with expletives directed my way.

I got an email from him Saturday which was his usual-trying-to-be-a-stickler for some tiny detail, and I responded. That was the last we heard from him. The Sun called him for his Sunday webcam and he never called back.

The Sun cares more than I do... but I care for the Sun. Last night he burst into tears. I told him well, I don't feel that anything is wrong, do you? and he said no. I also said that all his friends know how much he loves the Sun, so that if something had actually physically happened to him, I'm certain that SOMEBODY would have called... And that in the beginning or our relationship, I have known TF to "disappear" and not answer the phone for days, particularly when he was unemployed and depressed (shit... maybe that's what happened--maybe he got laid off).

So... I'm sending PV's out into the world for him, believe it or not.

4 comments:

Janet said...

Oh boy, do I know that feeling. That's when I start visiting jail websites of places he was last known to be, LOL!

Don't be stressed...take this time to let your guard down just a teeny bot and enjoy the quiet!

professor said...

not good if he got laid off...fuck a rain cloud, that will be a hurricane...

Fat Lady said...

For the Sun's sake I'll send out good thoughts for TF's well being. And I'll refrain from balancing that out with thoughts of how good it would be for you if this silence was permanent.

The Bear Maiden said...

Well, if he got laid off it'll REALLY suck cuz no child support. Which will, of course be just my luck. And it'll suck for him if he falls into arrears cuz ACS doesn't play. But it won't be good for his mental health, which sucks for everybody. LOL Janet, about looking for him on the web. I did that. He was last "seen" in February.