...but I'm actually mildly concerned about TF. He hasn't been heard from since Saturday.
Now, granted... if WE don't contact him, I get all kinds of nasty messages, escalating in nastiness. By this point (5 days) I'd be getting messages every few hours: "WHERE'S my sun!" with expletives directed my way.
I got an email from him Saturday which was his usual-trying-to-be-a-stickler for some tiny detail, and I responded. That was the last we heard from him. The Sun called him for his Sunday webcam and he never called back.
The Sun cares more than I do... but I care for the Sun. Last night he burst into tears. I told him well, I don't feel that anything is wrong, do you? and he said no. I also said that all his friends know how much he loves the Sun, so that if something had actually physically happened to him, I'm certain that SOMEBODY would have called... And that in the beginning or our relationship, I have known TF to "disappear" and not answer the phone for days, particularly when he was unemployed and depressed (shit... maybe that's what happened--maybe he got laid off).
So... I'm sending PV's out into the world for him, believe it or not.